The day I got my first period

From confusing advice – ‘Don’t talk to lads now’ – to bumbling attempts to help, our readers share warm, moving, and funny stories about menstruation

Oliver Burkeman: family mind games at Christmas

‘Family fights and failing marriages aren’t our own unique tribulations. They’re just variations on “games” we all unwittingly play,’ Oliver Burkeman says. ‘This week, why not try to catch yourself in the act?’

The perils of having an older parent

When Charles Lambert was born, his father was 64. After a childhood overshadowed by ill-health and old age, he cautions against late-life parenthood

Should I have a home birth?

Studies show that, for healthy women, they are safe and, largely, free of complications. But the choice between home and hospital is still up to you