Experience: It's the one thing you can rely on, all the pregnancy books said. That indescribable rush of love when they put the baby on your belly for the first time.
When psychotherapist Jane Haynes decided to expose the shocking details of her life and work in an autobiography, many of her peers were horrified. By Stuart Jeffries
'My brother's girlfriend is pregnant and they are planning a completely unnassisted birth despite a family history of complications. What kind of intervention is appropriate?'