Telling the children about our separation

It's finally time to speak to the children about R moving out, and it's a million times worse than I imagined. I don't know why I pictured a calmer, less emotionally charged scene

I’ve had the abortion. Now it’s time to move on

At my support group, I finally realise how my life has to change

My wife wants breast implants. How can I change her mind?

I believe we should accept our bodies as they are, but my wife says her breast size affects her self-esteem. I'm worried about the risks of implants and how it will affect our sex lives

My sister lives across the ocean but she’s always there for me

With only a couple of days to go until the abortion, I feel lost. But after talking to my sister, who lives in the United States, things start to look better

Punditry of the penis: let’s see this simple, elegant organ for what it is

Ally Fogg: Suzanne Moore's slightly patronising rules were off-beam, but we do need to bring the male member down a peg or two

10 rules for managing your penis

Suzanne Moore: Recent news stories involving sexting, wine, toasters, politicians and penises indicate some men need a refresher course, so here are my 10 rules for keeping your penis out of trouble

R is now using the pregnancy as an excuse to drink

I am angry that even R's addiction has not drowned my love for him, and the possible love for a future child together

‘Out of all my pregnancies, this is the biggest surprise’

I'm certain I don't want another baby, but I can't help thinking that if we were in a more stable relationship being pregnant would be something to celebrate

I give R an ultimatum: ‘It’s the drink or me’

There. It's been said. But within seconds, this certainty is replaced with a queasy sensation: I'll have to stick to my guns

Asperger’s, agoraphobia and depression are destroying my life and my marriage

I cannot leave the house or talk to anyone. It is unbearable and I don't know what to do