Private lives: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, but our sex life has never been good. I'm now in my 30s and want to have children. Should I find someone else?
Private lives: I love my boyfriend of 15 years but he has developed relationships with two other women. He says he needs the space and the secrecy. What should I do?
Private lives: I'm separated with two kids and now I'm sleeping with my husband again. But he lacks commitment to our children and I want to move on from the past
My family was dysfunctional and I haven't had much success with relationships. I still long to have a partner and children, but is that beyond my reach?
Pamela Stephenson Connolly: The coming- out process is never easy and may be affecting your desire, so if your decreased libido persists, consult a qualified sex therapist