‘I often say the journey time is longer’: how to make sex after 50 work for you
Many people’s sex lives can dip in middle age – and tiredness is a real passion killer. But there are simple things that can make a difference
What if HRT isn’t right for me? And is cold-water swimming really the answer to everything? Your menopause questions answered
We asked the experts for advice on how to ease your path through menopause and what alternative treatments work best
‘I don’t even dream about sex … I don’t miss it at all’: readers on why they chose celibacy
Inner peace, clarity of mind and for some, better orgasms. Readers share their experiences of swearing off sex, whether temporarily or long term
You be the judge: should my unfit girlfriend start exercising?
Marvin wants Lil to exercise for her mental health, but she won’t be told what to do by a ‘robot of the patriarchy’. You decide whose argument is fit for purpose
‘Not being jerks to each other helps’: readers on staying friends with an ex
A breakup doesn’t always mean the end of the road. Readers share their experiences on transitioning from romantic to platonic relationships
‘We have spent about $5,000 – it has been incredible’: readers on going to couples counselling
It isn’t always easy, and desired outcomes are not guaranteed. Readers tell us what happened when they sought professional help as a couple
Talk it out or walk it off: readers’ tips for stopping a relationship squabble
From using non-verbal signals to having a ‘no petulance’ rule, readers share their hot tips for keeping their cool
Tell us: share your experiences with couples counselling
Relationships can be tough and there’s no shame in calling in the professionals. We want to hear what happened afterwards
True romance: how to keep the love alive when one of you has a chronic illness
It’s 11 years since I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease, and my husband has seen me in some terrible states. But we refuse to let that define our relationship
True romance: how to keep the love alive when money is tight
You don’t have to spend a fortune to have fun with someone you adore – especially if you stop measuring yourself against other couples